Source
When this applies
when deciding whether to step away from a venture once your personal indispensability has faded
The takeaway
Sustained extreme output is viable only when tied to a clear personal purpose; absence of purpose post-exit (wealth/leisure alone) tends to produce misery, and genuine re-engagement requires a renewed sense of being needed.
Why it works
Working at extreme intensity (4am-midnight for two years) without personal life creates a point where the person must either find a new personal purpose (family) or risk burnout; stepping away without a replacement purpose (pure leisure) leads to depression, while returning requires feeling genuinely needed again.
One level up
Money and freedom are not substitutes for purpose; people often need to feel necessary to something larger than themselves to sustain motivation.
Where it stops holding
This stops working when a person genuinely finds purpose outside of their original venture (family, new ventures) and does not need to return — not everyone needs the same company to feel necessary.
Detail
situation: After working 4am-midnight for two years building LINE Studios to a scale where he was no longer mission-critical, Vivas took a sabbatical to focus on family, tried unrelated ventures (a dating show) he didn't care about, and found life purposeless.
decision: He returned to AppLovin right after its IPO when the stock dropped and he sensed the business again needed him.
outcome: He re-engaged fully and stayed, crediting the pull of purpose and genuine care for colleagues' success over financial incentives offered to retain him.
lesson: Walking away from extreme work without a replacement purpose is itself an unstable state; returning to a mission you care about, when genuinely needed, resolves it.
In their words
I will die, I will run myself into the ground to make those around me succeed. And I didn't have any of those things.